“One day, when it stops.
When you finally feel safe,
it will all fall apart.
Screaming for attention,
it rises like bile.
Crushing your mind,
Memories previously sweet,
erupt into brutalities.
Your life, perceived reality,
shatter into gaslit deceits.
Next, comes the dark.
Bringing self-hate, shame,
For all the sins you didn’t commit.”
-(c) 2018 itstimetogethonest.com
Healthy relationships don’t come with handbooks, and there are no courses or tests to make sure that everyone is fit.
Plus, sadly, many of us were brought up in dysfunctional environments and end up repeating negative patterns taught to us at a young age. Because of this we often pick the wrong people to share our lives with and end up in toxic relationships.
Continue reading “Toxic Relationships, Red Flags, And Self-Care.”
Toxic and traumatic relationships change us. You can or usually will start to adopt warped and negative thoughts and feelings. It’s not your fault!
Continue reading “Things That Happen Because Of Toxic Relationships.”
You never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have. – Bob Marley.
“Perhaps you don’t know that inside me is an angry tiger clawing and snarling it’s way up through every nerve and fibre.
Perhaps you don’t know that the weight of the air on my skin feels like a storm thundering across me like a disease.
Perhaps you don’t know that each day’s sameness brings desperation that knows no bounds.
Perhaps you don’t know that my name is anxiety and although I may look like a person, I’m not.
I’m pain.” – itstimetogethonest 2018
“Peace of mind is a precious thing. Protect it at all costs!”
“One of the hardest things to do in life, is letting go of what you thought was real.”
“It doesn’t matter who they are, toxic. Do yourself a favour and walk away.”
‘Be a bully, be a brute, but no one is listening as I walk away.”